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Treating Others



This one is a hard one for there are so many different variables within this group.  You have yourself, others, animals and than we have our objects.  How we treat anyone of these really shows the universe who we really are as a person.    Just like ourselves and others, animals are here for a spiritual purpose.  Objects are things we create to be in our lives to teach us how to treat spiritual beings.

Lets think and look at it this way.  When we have things within our home that is damaged, not taken care of.  The universe may not be bringing anything new into your life thinking that you will not know how to take care of it.  As we start to change our thinking and fixing what we have the universe starts to bring more things into our life.  Now lets think about how our outer world reflects our inner world.

Now lets talk about animals, those cute cuddly four legged spirits that are here to teach us.  Animals are heart centered, for some people that is a hard concept to understand.   Some can see how our house pets can be here to help us and teach us, yet could have a hard time with the animals in the wild.  I believe we can learn more from animals in the wild, and we really are not much different than they are, for think about it this way.

When out hiking in the back country you come across many different types of animals.  When you mind your own business and carry on with disturbing them they will walk right by you without even noticing you.    The same can go the people to people interaction, if we walk right by someone who is wanting to create drama knowing that it is not our business we will get left alone.  It is when we need to let our drama be brought into the mix and could end up hurt in one way or another.

As we go through the second week of ascension this week will be all about how we treat ourselves and how that reflects in our outer world.  Take a close look at what is around you at this moment.  Yes I am talking about your material objects, how do they look does not matter if they are old.  Is there stuff all over your place to where if someone stopped by you would not feel embarrassed to let them in.

Take the time needed to reflect and write things down,

Affirmation for the week:  I honor and respect myself, and everything that conducts energy.  For I am one with the energy.











Jesue Taught Love

Jesue Taught Love

We all know those people who like to throw their energy out and make people think that they are powerful and have everything under control. The reality of the fact is the ones who can sit back watch what is going on are the real ones who are powerful. They don’t need to get wrapped up in what is going on to care about what is happening. They are the ones who look for other way to show people who they really are. That we all know those people who like to through their energy around and make it look like they are would be the key word show.
Have you notice in life that the ones who are able to talk about themselves but not have the action to back it up are the ones people are looking up to as leaders. We need to create a new generation of leaders ones who really know what it means to lead. The ones who are calm when confronted with issues and not just throw their energy around and really don’t care who it is going to effect.
Out of all the books, movies not one has ever shown Jesus to be a person to throw his energy around and everyone looks up to him as a great leader. Than why is it if he is our example of a great leader we don’t know how to pick one. It is because everyone has put Jesus on a pedestal like what he has done no one will ever be able to achieve so why bother being a leader like him. There have been many other great leaders since Jesus these are not the ones who stand up and become our politicians these are the ones who do one small thing each and every day to make a change in their world for the betterment of the future.
All the great leaders out there teach love. This month work on seeing love in everything that you do. After all this is the month of love. See where this will take your life when we start to fully open our hearts to everyone. The homeless on the corner, the person you work with that you may not like, ever being here on earth has a soul and that soul is worth loving and being cared for. After all is that not what Jesus taught? He even loved the people who were about to make him suffer for just being him and yet he never stopped being who he was not matter what the end result was going to be. He knew that what was to happen would all be okay in the end.



Abundance:   A large quantity of something.  People can have abundance in many different ways. Money, love, material items.

There are many different areas of our life in which we can have and show abundance.  There is financial, love, material items, time.  We need to remember that what we give away is what we get back and the about of enjoyment in which we do this shows our vibration frequency that will show up with this.

Over that last four years I have seen this all come and go within my life.  I am to say that it is now here to stay.  For I now understand that when we do things with love and laughter the vibration is higher than we could even imagine it could be.  Most of this is because of choices I have made and others it was time for a change.

I have met some financial poor people and yet they are the most abundant people I know.  For they know it is the love which they put into things that will always come back.  They give service to the community to help out.  They are the ones who spend time listening to people without really getting involved with their issues.

Most people have figured out the law what you give is what you receive.  How does this really relate to abundance.  If you lots of time and you volunteer all around your community then you will have more time to get what you need done.  This could come in many different ways.  One is when you volunteer you get to know people around town and make connects so when you have a bigger project and need help you will know the right person to help you.

Financial abundance I have seen is where people have the hardest time with.  For if you feel you don’t have the money you will not be willing to help anyone out financially or even help pay for an event to help spend the cost with other people.  To have an abundance feeling around your financial situation you first need to remove the fear that things are not being taken care of.  For the universe is always working in ways to make things happen for us that is for our highest and best.

As you take a look at your life.  Look at the different areas in which you could have abundance in.  Financial, friends, love, material items.  Is there one area in which you have completely happy with the abundance you receive in that area.  When you are in that area of you life what are your feelings at that time.  I understand this may not be as easy as it sounds.  Learn to caring those feelings into the other areas so you can have abundance with all areas of your life.






the action or fact of abandoning or being abandoned.   Being left by a person you love with no reason why.

Abandonment is a hard one to overcome.  For this one of the first lessons we learn in life is trust for our parents.  If you have ever had kids you know that they love to do things over and over again to see if they are going to get the same reaction from you.  One game they like to play is dropping things off the table or high chair.

This teachers the infant trust and if their parent will be there for them through even the little things.  If the parent does not play pick up game with the infant the infant will soon learn that they will not be able to trust and start to feel abandon by the parents.

There are many times during a child’s life when the parent and other adults in their life can either erase what was done early or increase the lack of trust that is already there.  Children love their parents and need to trust them.  If the parent is unable to spend any time with the child that will create abandonment issues.

As a child gets older abandonment issues will start to show up in many ways.  Not being able to keep friends for a long time.  For they are always waiting for the bottom to fall out for it always did with their parents.

I remember that their was several times when I needed to talk to my parents for some reason.  I was a very emotional child and for that my parents did not have the time or energy to teach me what I needed for me to learn to control my emotions.

I learned early on that the only one I could trust was me.  This really did not serve me well at the time.  Fore I was young and did not know how this world worked.  I had to make my way through this life time with trial and error.  This did not always work well for me.  I have made many a mistakes along the way.

The biggest way I was able to trust and release my abandonment issue that I got as a child.  I had to learn to love myself.  Take care of myself and spend time with my self.  I had to become my best friend.  While doing this I was able to open up my heart chakra and really learn who I am as a person.

Ways to start to become yourselves best friend.

  1. Take yourself out to eat.
  2. What is that one activity you enjoyed doing outside as a child.  Do that, this will help bring back the inner child.
  3. Spend time with people who feed you.
  4. Spend time alone if that is what you need to recharge.
  5. Most of all treat yourself that way you want everyone else to treat you.
I love myself, I enjoy spending time with myself, I treat myself I expect everyone else to treat me.



Closing the Year



This is the time of year when we can look back and see what worked and what did not work.  We get to make changes for what did not work.  This is what we call resolutions this is a way for us to set goals that we think will create a new year.

Up until this year I have made new years resolutions with out looking back to see what worked and what did.  As I am thinking about this how do we know what to change if we don’t know what worked and what did not.

Lets take time today to analyze this last year.  Head out tonight and celebrate any way that feels right for you.  All the great things that happened to you this year.  Even the lessons that where learned are worth celebrating tonight.

Sort this year out in 9 different areas of  your life.  Wealth, Fame/Recognition, Relationship, Family, Health, Children/Creativity, Education, Career, Travel/Friends.  This will help give you areas to focus on.


Wealth:  Bank account not where I would like it to be.  Had lots of issues with income this year.  Created a new business and started bring my authentic self out for everyone to see.  Acquired  new clients this year.

Fame/Recognition:  More people following me on my FB page.  I am being noticed by people I have never meet before in the field that I am working in.

Relationship:  Meet a few new people that became friends.  Let go of a few people that did not serve me.  Became better friends with people I have known for a few years.  Did not start dating anyone new.

Family:  Welcomed a new son into my house hold this year.  Spending time with my son with this being his last year of high school.  Daughter took next step in life and went out on her own.

Health:  Area of great need.

Children/Creativity:  Started writing my book.  Have many different ideas on how to write my book just don’t know what way feels right.

Education:  Read books to help my career and life.  Listened to tapes and recordings on things I would like to know more about.

Career:  Started my own business and started showing people who I really am.  With this came a big learning lesson for I was taught growing up that who I was would not be welcomed in this world.

Travel/Friends:  Spent time with 28,000 like minded people at convention.

Look at what you need to change and what you would like to see happen for the next year.  Now it is time to put those ideas on a vision board for 2016.

Release what did not work in your life this last year with the last sound of this year.

2016 vision board




Christmas is a time for love.  Jesus was a great example for love and he even loved his enemies.  He knew that there was a higher plan for him and he stayed connected no matter what he was put under.  The ones who were out to hurt him, he forgave them all the time.

He did not have an easy life there where many people working on a reason to end his life for they did not like what he stood for.  In fact it was years after his passing that he even got any recognition for what he taught.  There have been many movies that have  reflected his life.

There was even times when he wandered off to the neighborhood temple to learn new things, and teach new things.  Jesus was a great teacher.  One that after all these years people are still wanting to learn from.  His message was love and for some reason we have lost sight of that after all these years.

People are judging other people because of what they look like or who they choose to love.  For many years some think Mary Magdalene was a prostitute that Jesus chose to show love towards.  I know there are controversial issues on Mary.  Either way she chose to love Jesus back and listen to his words on how to show love.

We are visual beings. This can make it hard for some to figure out how to be love or show love.  This is why Jesus was on Earth during the time that he was, to show people how to be love.  The lives he touched would multiply as people showed others how to love and be loved.

This Christmas, be the love you want to see in the world and shine that for everyone to see.

Have a very blessed and Merry Christmas.



Connect With Self


Celebrate Yourself, Be Your Own Best Friend

I have come to the realization on how important it is to connect with your self first.  Kids come into this world knowing how to connect with themselves.  This is when we are still really connected to ourselves and our source.  As we grow older most will lose that connection for they are raised with last of darkness within their childhood, which will diminish the light and connection within each of us.

It is hard to reconnect with ourselves as we get older but must needed.  When we are able to connect with ourselves we are ok with being alone with ourselves during any saturations.  You will also be able to find solitude in different saturation’s.

Praying is when we talk to God, meditation is when we listen.  We need to learn to listen more.  Whether it is during a meditation or with other people.  When we listen great things happen.

Connection is the source of life.  It is why we are who we are.  When we stay connected the everyday stuff does not bother us.  Or maybe we just don’t notice it that much.  We need to remember that we are spiritual beings have a physical experience.

A way to start to reconnect with yourself is to LOVE yourself.  This is hard for most people.  Be loyal to yourself first and foremost.  Celebrate yourself, I understand that if you have never been celebrated before than it will be different and maybe not feel right.  So your believes that this is not okay and maybe not normal will come into your thoughts.  This could create a energy reaction that may start to prove that it is not right or normal.  Don’t listen to that, this is your old thoughts and patterns coming in to make your life feel okay.