Monthly Archives: December 2015




the action or fact of abandoning or being abandoned.   Being left by a person you love with no reason why.

Abandonment is a hard one to overcome.  For this one of the first lessons we learn in life is trust for our parents.  If you have ever had kids you know that they love to do things over and over again to see if they are going to get the same reaction from you.  One game they like to play is dropping things off the table or high chair.

This teachers the infant trust and if their parent will be there for them through even the little things.  If the parent does not play pick up game with the infant the infant will soon learn that they will not be able to trust and start to feel abandon by the parents.

There are many times during a child’s life when the parent and other adults in their life can either erase what was done early or increase the lack of trust that is already there.  Children love their parents and need to trust them.  If the parent is unable to spend any time with the child that will create abandonment issues.

As a child gets older abandonment issues will start to show up in many ways.  Not being able to keep friends for a long time.  For they are always waiting for the bottom to fall out for it always did with their parents.

I remember that their was several times when I needed to talk to my parents for some reason.  I was a very emotional child and for that my parents did not have the time or energy to teach me what I needed for me to learn to control my emotions.

I learned early on that the only one I could trust was me.  This really did not serve me well at the time.  Fore I was young and did not know how this world worked.  I had to make my way through this life time with trial and error.  This did not always work well for me.  I have made many a mistakes along the way.

The biggest way I was able to trust and release my abandonment issue that I got as a child.  I had to learn to love myself.  Take care of myself and spend time with my self.  I had to become my best friend.  While doing this I was able to open up my heart chakra and really learn who I am as a person.

Ways to start to become yourselves best friend.

  1. Take yourself out to eat.
  2. What is that one activity you enjoyed doing outside as a child.  Do that, this will help bring back the inner child.
  3. Spend time with people who feed you.
  4. Spend time alone if that is what you need to recharge.
  5. Most of all treat yourself that way you want everyone else to treat you.
I love myself, I enjoy spending time with myself, I treat myself I expect everyone else to treat me.



Closing the Year



This is the time of year when we can look back and see what worked and what did not work.  We get to make changes for what did not work.  This is what we call resolutions this is a way for us to set goals that we think will create a new year.

Up until this year I have made new years resolutions with out looking back to see what worked and what did.  As I am thinking about this how do we know what to change if we don’t know what worked and what did not.

Lets take time today to analyze this last year.  Head out tonight and celebrate any way that feels right for you.  All the great things that happened to you this year.  Even the lessons that where learned are worth celebrating tonight.

Sort this year out in 9 different areas of  your life.  Wealth, Fame/Recognition, Relationship, Family, Health, Children/Creativity, Education, Career, Travel/Friends.  This will help give you areas to focus on.


Wealth:  Bank account not where I would like it to be.  Had lots of issues with income this year.  Created a new business and started bring my authentic self out for everyone to see.  Acquired  new clients this year.

Fame/Recognition:  More people following me on my FB page.  I am being noticed by people I have never meet before in the field that I am working in.

Relationship:  Meet a few new people that became friends.  Let go of a few people that did not serve me.  Became better friends with people I have known for a few years.  Did not start dating anyone new.

Family:  Welcomed a new son into my house hold this year.  Spending time with my son with this being his last year of high school.  Daughter took next step in life and went out on her own.

Health:  Area of great need.

Children/Creativity:  Started writing my book.  Have many different ideas on how to write my book just don’t know what way feels right.

Education:  Read books to help my career and life.  Listened to tapes and recordings on things I would like to know more about.

Career:  Started my own business and started showing people who I really am.  With this came a big learning lesson for I was taught growing up that who I was would not be welcomed in this world.

Travel/Friends:  Spent time with 28,000 like minded people at convention.

Look at what you need to change and what you would like to see happen for the next year.  Now it is time to put those ideas on a vision board for 2016.

Release what did not work in your life this last year with the last sound of this year.

2016 vision board




Christmas is a time for love.  Jesus was a great example for love and he even loved his enemies.  He knew that there was a higher plan for him and he stayed connected no matter what he was put under.  The ones who were out to hurt him, he forgave them all the time.

He did not have an easy life there where many people working on a reason to end his life for they did not like what he stood for.  In fact it was years after his passing that he even got any recognition for what he taught.  There have been many movies that have  reflected his life.

There was even times when he wandered off to the neighborhood temple to learn new things, and teach new things.  Jesus was a great teacher.  One that after all these years people are still wanting to learn from.  His message was love and for some reason we have lost sight of that after all these years.

People are judging other people because of what they look like or who they choose to love.  For many years some think Mary Magdalene was a prostitute that Jesus chose to show love towards.  I know there are controversial issues on Mary.  Either way she chose to love Jesus back and listen to his words on how to show love.

We are visual beings. This can make it hard for some to figure out how to be love or show love.  This is why Jesus was on Earth during the time that he was, to show people how to be love.  The lives he touched would multiply as people showed others how to love and be loved.

This Christmas, be the love you want to see in the world and shine that for everyone to see.

Have a very blessed and Merry Christmas.



Connect With Self


Celebrate Yourself, Be Your Own Best Friend

I have come to the realization on how important it is to connect with your self first.  Kids come into this world knowing how to connect with themselves.  This is when we are still really connected to ourselves and our source.  As we grow older most will lose that connection for they are raised with last of darkness within their childhood, which will diminish the light and connection within each of us.

It is hard to reconnect with ourselves as we get older but must needed.  When we are able to connect with ourselves we are ok with being alone with ourselves during any saturations.  You will also be able to find solitude in different saturation’s.

Praying is when we talk to God, meditation is when we listen.  We need to learn to listen more.  Whether it is during a meditation or with other people.  When we listen great things happen.

Connection is the source of life.  It is why we are who we are.  When we stay connected the everyday stuff does not bother us.  Or maybe we just don’t notice it that much.  We need to remember that we are spiritual beings have a physical experience.

A way to start to reconnect with yourself is to LOVE yourself.  This is hard for most people.  Be loyal to yourself first and foremost.  Celebrate yourself, I understand that if you have never been celebrated before than it will be different and maybe not feel right.  So your believes that this is not okay and maybe not normal will come into your thoughts.  This could create a energy reaction that may start to prove that it is not right or normal.  Don’t listen to that, this is your old thoughts and patterns coming in to make your life feel okay.






Cutting Cords



This time of year is it really important that we learn how to cut cords to have a different experience with people around this time.  I understand that family is family and you may not always see each others ways and that can make it hard to get along with them.  I have learned that cutting cords with those people can keep everything in the now.  Which is where we want to be this time of year.

What are cords?  Cords are energy that goes from one person to another when ever we have a connections with them.  This connection can come in a form of a thought, phone call conversation, or just talking about that person.  Yes people when you gossip about people you are creating an energy cord with them.   The more cords you have with one person the more there energy can and will effect yours.

I will go through a visualization that will let you cut your cords.  This is only temporary and needs to be done daily.  There is a way to pull them out.  This can be done by someone who can see the cords and can see where they start so when it is pulled out the hole it creates can be closed.

Cutting your cords.  It is best to do this before going to bed.  This way you don’t have everyone’s energy weighing you down at night making it hard to sleep.

As you are laying down in your bed close your eyes.  Think about all the people you interacted with today.  What part of your body did they touch the most.  Your heart, your mind, these are the two popular areas people get affected by others.  Imagine that there is a hula hoop that is going around your body.  As it goes over your body it is cutting all the cords interaction with people you interacted with today.

Have a great day interaction with people today.

To remove the negative cords contact me.

Michelle Robin




In a world where be loyal seems to be a lost concept.  I hear people say that you need to be loyal and these are the ones that show just the opposite with talking about people behind their backs.  Question: who is it that we need to be loyal to?

What I have come to realize over the years that we need to be loyal to yourself first.  What does this mean?  What does this look like?  In order for us to be loyal to ourselves what we need to do is learn how to reconnect with ourselves.  This can be hard for some.  It is learning to enjoy your own company.  Take yourself out to lunch or dinner because you want to spend time with you.  Take yourself to the movies and if you like to spend time outside go for a long walk.  These are things that are ways for you to connect with yourself.

What does it mean when we can connect with ourselves.  Right now there are many people that are getting what we call spiritual upgrades.  What this feels like is that you feel really disconnected to yourself and others.  The way to get the feeling of being connected back is to connect with yourself.  This is helpful in many ways.

During this process we find out who we really are, what we like and what serves us and what does not.  We learn to put up boundaries around people that we may be related to but are not healthy for us.  We start to take back our own power and enjoy the reactions of others.

As we learn to reconnect with ourselves the out come is that others will want to connect with us.  For when you treat yourself as someone you enjoy others will enjoy you also.  21ecc856e663d0ce54a51d31455feacf